how many times do you brush off something and say, "neh, it's all right."

You do that

because you want to run away

because you know that things ain't as bad as what you think

because you are prideful

because you do not know how to handle it

because it is not important

because you are optimistic

sometimes it is one of the reasons or a condensation of a few reasons. whatever the case, everything will be all right, fine, ok, good in the end...see what i mean? brushing away again. it has became an auto-neuroreflex.

you gotta give and receive. don't feel shy to receive if another wants to give.